Show Them God Early
This adapted excerpt is from The Godly Family.
Permit the children to come to Me, and do not hinder them,
for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.
Luke 18:16
god’s Grace & Our Obligation
No human endeavors, either of ministers or of parents, can ever be effectual to bring one soul to the saving knowledge of God in Christ without the cooperating and transforming influences of the blessed Spirit. Yet you well know, and I hope you seriously consider, that this does not in the least weaken our obligation to the most diligent use of proper means.
1. Children must be trained up in the way of
devotion to God in heart and actioN.
This, as you well know, is the sum and foundation of everything truly good.
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom.
Psalm 111:10
The psalmist therefore invites children to him with the promise of instructing them in it.
Come, ye children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD.
Psalm 34:11
And, it is certain, some right notions of the Supreme Being must be implanted in the minds of children before there can be a reasonable foundation for teaching them those doctrines that peculiarly relate to Christ under the character of the Mediator.
He who comes to God must believe that He is and
that He is a rewarder of those who seek him.
Hebrews 11:6
A child will easily apprehend that as every house is built by some man and there can be no work without an author, so He that built all things is God. From this obvious idea of God as the Maker of all, we may naturally represent Him as very great and very good, that they may be taught at once to reverence and love Him.
It is of great importance that children early understand and retain an awe of God and a humble veneration for His perfections and glories. He ought, therefore, to be represented to them as the great Lord of all.
Yet, we should describe Him as not only the greatest, but the best of beings. We should teach them to know Him by the most encouraging name of “The LORD, The LORD God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abundant in goodness and truth, keeping mercy for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin” (Ex. 34:6–7). We should represent Him as the universal, kind, indulgent* parent, who loves His creatures and by all proper methods provides for their happiness. And we should particularly represent His goodness to them. We should tell them that they live every moment on God and that all our affection for them is no more than He puts into our hearts and that all our power to help them is no more than He lodges in our hands.
We should also solemnly remind them that their spirits are to return to this God. As He is now always with them and knows everything they do, speak, or think, so He will bring every work into judgment and make them forever happy or miserable, as they, on the whole, are found obedient or rebellious.
When such a foundation is laid in the belief of the being and providence of God and of a future state, both of rewards and punishments, children should be instructed in the duty they owe to God. They should be particularly taught to pray to Him and to praise Him.
2. Children must be trained up in the way of
faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.
You know, my friends, and I hope many of you know it to the daily joy of your souls, that Christ is “the way, the truth, and the life” (John 14:6). It is by Him we have boldness and access with confidence to a God, who might otherwise appear as a “consuming fire” (Heb. 12:29). It is, therefore, of great importance to lead children quickly into the knowledge of Christ, which is no doubt a considerable part of the “nurture and admonition of the Lord,” which the apostle recommends and was perhaps what he principally intended by those words (Eph. 6:4).
We should, therefore, teach them quickly that the first parents of the human race most ungratefully rebelled against God and subjected themselves and all their offspring to His wrath and curse (Gen. 1–3). The awful consequences of this should be opened at large, and we should labor to convince them that they have made themselves liable to the divine displeasure—that dreadful thing—by their own personal guilt. Thus, by the knowledge of the law, should we make way for the gospel—the joyful news of deliverance by Christ.
In unfolding this, great care ought to be taken that we do not fill their minds with an aversion to one sacred person while we endeavor to attract their regards to another. The Father is not to be represented as severe and hardly prevailed upon by the intercession of His compassionate Son to entertain thoughts of mercy and forgiveness.
We should often repeat to them that God is so holy, and yet so gracious that, rather than He would on the one hand destroy man or on the other leave sin unpunished, He made His own Son a sacrifice for it, appointing Him to be humbled that we might be exalted, to die that we might live. We should also represent to them—with holy wonder and joy—how readily the Lord Jesus Christ consented to procure our deliverance in so expensive a way. How cheerfully He said, “Lo, I come to do thy will, O God” (Heb. 10:7, 9)! To enhance the value of this amazing love, we should endeavor, according to our weak capacities, to teach them who this compassionate Redeemer is, to represent something of His glories as the eternal Son of God and the great Lord of angels and men.
We should instruct them in His amazing condescension in laying aside these glories that He might become a little, weak, helpless child, and afterwards “a man of many sorrows and acquainted with grief.” We should lead them into the knowledge of those circumstances of the history of Jesus that may have the greatest tendency to strike their minds and to impress them with an early sense of gratitude and love to Him. We should tell them how poor He made Himself that He might enrich us, how diligently He went about doing good, how willingly He preached the gospel to the lowest of the people. We should especially tell them how kind He was to little children and how He chided His disciples when they would have hindered them from being brought to Him. It is expressly said that Jesus was much displeased and said, “Suffer little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God” (Luke 18:16)—a tender circumstance that perhaps was recorded, in part at least, for this very reason: that children in succeeding ages might be impressed and affected with it.
Through these scenes of His life, we should lead them on to His death. We should show how easily He could have delivered Himself, and yet how patiently He submitted to the most cruel injuries: to be scourged and spit upon, to be crowned with thorns, and to bear His cross. We should show them how this innocent, holy, and divine Person was brought as a lamb to the slaughter; and, while they were piercing Him with nails, instead of loading them with curses, He prayed for them, saying, “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34). And when their little hearts are awed and melted with so strange a story, we should tell them it was thus He groaned, bled, and died for sinners just like us, and often remind them of their own concern in what was then transacted.
We should lead on their thoughts to the glorious views of Christ’s resurrection and ascension and tell them with what adorable goodness He still remembers His people in the midst of His exaltation, pleading the cause of sinful creatures, and employing His interest in the court of heaven to procure life and glory for all that believe in Him and love Him.
We should then go on to instruct them in those particulars of obedience by which the sincerity of our faith and our love is to be approved. At the same time, we must remind them of their own weakness and tell them how God helps us by sending His Holy Spirit to dwell in our hearts to furnish us for every good word and work!
* indulgent—The author does not mean sinful indulgence, but rather “ready to show favor.”
Meet the author:
Philip Doddridge
Philip Doddridge (1702–1751) was an English Nonconformist minister, prolific author, and hymnwriter; born in London, England. Doddridge’s book, The Rise and Progress of Religion in the Soul, was translated into seven languages, and C.H. Spurgeon referred to it as "that holy book".
